WARNING!!! THIS POST IS FOR THE MARRIED ONLY. SINGLES SHOULD NOT READ.
Men often complain in my posts on marital sexual satisfaction that their wives are dead cold in bed. Now, is the time to wake the woman in her and turn her to a hot chick in bed.
The hard work is in knowing what turns her on and that is not difficult at all. If you can turn her on and know her erotic zones, you have a ball of fire in between sheets.
Every woman loves to be loved and pampered. This is where some men blank out and wander why she wouldn't respond to his allure. You've got to show her some love, not 2 minutes before sex but all day! A woman can sacrifice her entire life for a man who treats her like a queen so learn to pamper your wife silly and make her feel like a woman.
Wake her from bed with a soft kiss on the lips and pull her into your arms. Rub her back gently and tell her you love her so much. A woman can't get tired of hearing "I love you." She may wander what you are upto, don't worry, it's not yet time for sex. You are just setting the pace. Assist her with house chores and make her feel like the Queen of England before going to work.
While at work, call her often and send subtle sexy messages. You understand what I mean. You know that part of her that drives you wild, remind her and set the tone. Don't forget to remind her you love her.
Get something for her no matter how little. It's just to say, "I think about you all day and you mean a lot to me." Embrace her warmly on arrival and let your hand slid down at her back a bit, it's a subtle message. Getting a woman in the mood takes time.
Yes, ensure the kids are fast asleep after dinner and have a warm bath. Be sparkling clean and ensure your mouth smells fresh.
Offer to bath for her and gently wash her body. Bath her like a baby and at this time she's waking for you. Carry her back to the bedroom and wipe her dry. Lay her on the bed and admire her from head to toe. Her heart should be racing at this point but you are not ready yet.
Start listing all the qualities you like about her and remind her she's the most beautiful woman in your world. She wants you now and her heart is panting for you. Pull her into your arms or join her in bed and slowly kiss her from her fore head down to her toe...unless she is frigid or have an emotional hang up, she should wrap her self round you at this point, now don't go straight and have the sex, you've spoilt the whole show and she wouldn't respond to your seduction next time. You've got to spend at least twenty minutes in fore-play where you gently kiss her deeply, fondle her breasts or nipples and at the same time tenderly stroke her clitoris. Watch her response, after about twenty minutes she would be wet while reaching for your penis. It's now time to go in.
You can pull her on top of you for the cowgirl style or go missionary or sitting, do what is okay and convenient for her. Go 2 inches deep and hold it. Her body is already on fire. If she wants you to thrust, do so while stroking her clitoris, do not go too deep as it is painful. Thrust in gently and if she wants you to go deep and with speed do so, she needed it at that point and her whole body is screaming to explode. Do not stop stroking her clitoris until she bursts into a terrific orgasm. Well done brother, you have just given your wife SUPER SEX. It's not time to sleep yet. Let her collapse in your arms and massage her back gently. Tell her how much you enjoy the sex.
Sex in marriage is HARD WORK. Most men are not patient with their wives. Once they are aroused, they push her to bed, yank her pants off and penetrate. After few minutes of thrusting, they are out leaving the woman unfulfilled and bitter.
Sex is an ART that must be learnt. A great sex is not natural, it is learnt. If you can bring your wife to orgasm most of the time, she will enjoy sex more and always look forward to it; she will literally beg you for sex. Try it, it works!
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