TEST HIS MENTAL HEALTH

Someone showed us the video of a man dragging his wife on the ground by her hair and beating her mercilessly while neighbours watched! Another man in another video was whipping his wife the way you beat a stubborn cow!

I got tired!

ARE YOU HAVING SEX OR MAKING LOVE?

You are having sex if you only join your sexual organs. You are making love if your spirit, soul, body, affection, tenderness, respect, honour and admiration is involved in the sex! You are renewing your love over and over again when you affectionately pour all of yourself into your spouse

HOW TO MAKE AN EXCELLENT LADY FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

Likes attract likes, birds of a feather flocks together. No excellent woman will look your direction talk less of accepting your marriage proposal if you do not have these qualities:

1. INTELLIGENCE: You must have it. No virtuous, super smart lady will ever give attention to a mediocre, unintelligent, mentally backward and passive man. If there is nothing in your head except football and sex, you are not fit for marriage.

2. EXCELLENT PACKAGAGING: No one asked you to get labeled suits from France. Excellent grooming means excellent hair cut, fitting shirts, tops and trousers. Well sized shoes and neatly ironed outfits plus excellent colour combination and neatness. You are good to go.

3. LOOK PROFESSIONAL: Take your job/ business seriously and look what you sell. You can't look like a scum bag and expect her to like you. If you are a banker, dress and look like it. If you sell motor spare parts, look it. If you are a mechanic, look responsible in your over all and look sweet in your mufti. You don't have to be all black, dirty and smelly all day.

4. YOUR CARRIAGE: Lazy posture is a turn off. Stand straight. Don't drag your feet on the floor when walking. Walk smart. Exude confidence.

5. THINK BEFORE TALKING: Excellent men open their mouths with wisdom, they speak with knowledge and understanding. Stop talking for the sake of talking. Stupid jokes and senseless, meaningless discussions are for lazy, backward, visionless people. If you have nothing sensible to say. Keep your mouth shut.

6. BE KNOWLEDGEABLE: Every woman wants a man she can look up to. You must know more than her for her to respect your advise and opinion. Read wide, attend seminars, symposiums, workshop and lectures. Be an excellent researcher.

7. EXUDE CONFIDENCE: Excellent men exude confidence. Walk straight, look people in the eye when talking, learn to take firm handshake. Dress smart.

8. YOUR SPOKEN ENGLISH: Excellent men have a good command of English language. No one is perfect. We all make mistakes but if the mistakes are making you lose job interviews, chase potential customers away and confuse the congregation when preaching Jesus and hell fire, you need serious attention. Go back to school!

9. BE HARDWORKING: Excellent men are 100% committed to their job, business, ministry or vision. If you have nothing doing and you want to get married, you need rehabilitation.

10. MAKE MONEY: Excellent men know how to.make money. Money is a number one romance booster in marriage. Give your wife cool cash to look good and run the home, she will enjoy love making without stress. Just as poverty deflates erection, lack of money will make any woman frigid. Go look for job, start a business and learn to bring money home.

11. BE A GIVER: Excellent men are generous and take care of the needy. They pay their tithe and offering without delay and are excellent seed sowers. If you are stingy and tight fisted, no.sane woman will marry you.

12. THEY LOVE GOD. Excellent men are God lovers and God chasers. When you chase God, excellent women will find you so adorable.

There you go brother. Go work on yourself and prepare to attract the woman of your dreams, an excellent virtuous woman. Get my ebook "How To Attract Your Perfect Soul Mate." You will learn what it takes to attract your own wife, best friend, play mate, lover, and soul mate. Just #500. You will get it in your email after payment.
Put an end to wrong relationships and marital delay.  Learn to attract and get married to the woman of your dreams. You will not mis-choose. See you at the top. God bless you. Cheers!

GET THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE!

                             

                     

There are some relationships you must end if your life must move forward. There are great places you will never get to if you don't dump some friends!

LIES THAT BREAK MARRIAGES

The long anticipated book Title " LIES THAT BREAK MARRIAGES." by Seun Oladele is finally out.

Why are you so afraid of being yourself in your marriage? Why do you tell lies? Why do you sometimes pretend? Why can't you be down to earth real with your partner? Are you single and can't find someone to marry? Does your courtship always give you headache? Are you sick and tired of broken relationships that never lead to marriage?


Are you tired of your marriage? Are you already having an affair or your spouse is having an affair and you wish all these can stop and go back to the way your marriage was at the beginning?

Are things so bad you are already thinking about divorce?
Are you already divorced/ separated and wants your partner back?

Your marriage can be sweeter than the way it was at the beginning, your partner can stop cheating on you, you can pick the right man/woman for your life as a single person, your courtship can take a beautiful dramatic turn and end in a glorious beautiful marriage and yes! You can cancel your divorce and have your EX back. This book: LIES THAT BREAK MARRIAGES specifically teaches you how.

You are going to learn about true intimacy, sweet communication, mutual compromise, heart-to-heart talk in courtship and what to look for when choosing a life partner and LOTS MORE!

So how do I get it???

Considering the heartache, pains, sorrow, weeping, regrets and divorce this book is going to save you, it ought to go for
N5,000 and you will still thank me for the great impact of this book, but I won't do that considering the present Nigerian economic situation. N2,000 for one is applaudable considering the efforts and research that went into this to ensure you have a blissful marriage and experience heaven on earth like never before, still, I won't want to stress you. I'm giving it out at a token to help everyone get a copy. Everyone must experience a blissful marriage, sweet courtship and pick the right partner for their lives, that's my joy. That's what gives me fulfillment.

So how much is it? You won't believe how incredibly cheap this book is, it's just N500 for the first persons to order between now and December 31st. By January 2018, the actual price goes for N1,000 only. For buyers outside Nigeria, it sells for $3 dollars.

Are you eager to get yours right now? Just transfer #500 to; TELLA PATIENCE OLUWASEUN,
ACCESS BANK: 0036541429.

Send your name, teller number and other details to my email: askseunoladele@gmail.com with your email address. The ebook becomes yours in 24 hours!

Start enjoying bliss like never before, it's your right!!!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.

YOU WILL NOT GET BORED!

Some say few years after marriage, you will get tired of each other, your passion will wane, and you start getting attracted to someone else! Not if you are married to your best friend and God's will for your life. 

LEAVE YOUR PAST ALONE!

Everybody makes mistakes, yours is not new, stop waking your dead past, leave it alone and move on.

LEAVE HIS MISTRESS ALONE...

She is not your problem, winning your husband's love is the problem. Stop putting the cart before the horse and sit down with your homework.

Your husband fell in love with her because she does things you have stopped doing to him.

LAZY HUSBANDS

A lazy husband is a pain in the neck. I mean this guy won't do anything for the family. He's at home all day watching movies while the woman is labouring under the sun to provide for the family and he must eat 3 times a day! He won't even assist the woman with house chores!

BEFORE YOU LOSE YOUR SPOUSE!

Little foxes! They are tiny yet can destroy a whole vineyard!

There are little, "negligible" things we do in our marriages that if we don't do something about them fast, we may end up kissing our marriages good bye!

YOU WILL LOSE HIM!

Oh, oh. Ohhh… he is 6 feet tall, handsome and super rich; that's why you are marrying him!

You like his dimples when he smiles, his nicely trimmed moustache always make your heart race fast and his full, succulent and sexy lips always invite you for warm, passionate, deep kisses...

If it's all about his hot body, your marriage won't last. There are lots of other ladies out there having the same feeling for him. If he lacks character, has no self-control, does not fear God and man, you will lose him.

If all you want from him is just sex and money, baby, you will LOSE him. That's why most celebrities’ marriage don't last; it is based on pure selfishness and lust not love.

Develop your character, be prayerful, ask for God's will; marry for the right reasons and not sex or money.

Cheers!

MEET HER NEEDS

Women also get tempted; they just don't talk about it. If you do not meet your wife's needs, you may lose her or worse, she may commit adultery right under your nose! Far too many women are having affairs these days.

Learn to meet your wife's needs. Women need love every single day of their lives. A woman needs her husband's love, tenderness, compassion, care and affection to feel fulfilled. When her needs are met at home, she won't go looking for it elsewhere, either in her ex, or female friends who have nothing sensible to add to her life except gossip all day.

I had always thought after I got married, no man would ever show interest in me except my husband. I was very ecstatic and happy about that, I honestly do not like too much male attention. But I was woefully wrong!

I don't know what could be desirable about a married woman. I am certainly not a raving beau, I don't dress indecently, I wore my rings all the time and I wear very serious looks on the road...yet I had admirers...maybe they love the intelligent conversations. They would praise me, admire me and show me tenderness but no matter the attention they give, it is a tiny fraction of what I get at home. My husband always give me what no man can ever give: that is unconditional love. His love ALWAYS says to me: "no matter what you do to me Seun, I will always love you..." I want to lay down my life for that guy! He loves me so much I wonder whether his brain has all been wired with my name. I fill every space in his head and heart -no, I don't take the place of God in his life!

Learn to love your wife brother! When a woman is fighting her husband she's crying for affection. It's very easy for a wife to submit to her husband. All she asks for is your love, compassion and tenderness. If you would take good care of her, love her more and show her compassion, you will see the changes you've always wanted and have a brand new wife who is more beautiful, submissive, godly, obedient and virtuous.

God bless you my brother.

Cheers!

SWEEP HIM OFF HIS FEET

You can sweep a man off his feet through intelligent conversations. Men love intelligent and smart ladies. They love women who can think, are practical, logical and down to earth.

A REAL MAN!

The real sign that you are a man and man indeed is not your fat bank balance. Some men think once they have millions stacked in the bank then they are men. It's not your large muscles or how tall you are. A real man has self-control. That is the point; self-control! If you lack self-control, you are a woman! It pisses me off when I see a man bicker with a woman, scream at his wife and loses his brain completely on spotting a sodomic seductress hell bent on having sex with him!

SUPER SINGLE LADIES

Super single ladies abound in the society. They are the women aged 30, 35, 45 up to 60 who has never been married. This is a serious problem.

HAUNTED!!!

The past haunts! There are some mistakes you make in your past that unless the Lord have mercy on you, wash away your sins with His blood and give you the grace to move on will haunt you forever.

ABOUT IN-LAWS

There are some frictions we have with our spouses and in-laws that are totally avoidable if only we apply wisdom and learn to keep our mouths shut when necessary.

DON'T SHOW IT!

A tall, handsome man can make a woman stagger! No matter how much you admire him, don't show it. Don't stammer and lose your balance. Show yourself some respect; keep a straight face, soft look and get busy.

THE POWER OF A GOSSIP

A gossip is a raging inferno. Backbiters know how to set a whole city on fire. Any relationship that must experience bliss must shut gossips and backbiters out of their lives.

ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT HONEYMOON?

When some people talk about honeymoon, I wonder what they are talking about.

Honeymoon is for the bride and groom who wants to get physically intimate with each other for the first time. It is called honeymoon because, love-making with the one you love, for the first time leaves chemistry super high, expectations great and seeing your lover's full naked body for the FIRST TIME, gives you an adrenaline high you have never experienced before.

This leaves you very excited. Honeymoon is a period of sexual exploration and discovery...it's something, I can't just describe. It's rapturous, exciting and superb. Seeing your spouse' naked body alone leaves you excited yet shy and elated.

Lots of singles have destroyed their chances of honeymoon in courtship. They've had all the sex they could ever get as if their partners would run away and wonder why the honeymoon was tasteless. Honeymoon? The honey has long been finished before they got to the moon!

There is really nothing NEW to look forward to. The beauty of sexual discovery is destroyed forever. The trust of your spouse that you can WAIT for them is long gone. The joy of being known intimately by your husband/wife has been killed. While in courtship you felt guilty for engaging in pre-marital sex along with the fear of losing your fiance/fiancee. On the wedding night you still felt guilty for not waiting to be discovered for the first time. Then what's the use? Why the rush?

Oh, that joy of being seen on your wedding night for the first time, just the way you are after the bride price has been paid, your parents have been honoured, your spouse has pledged before God and man to love, cherish and honour you forever...

What joy it is to be uncovered and stand before him or her shameless, beautiful, pure and chaste? That is honeymoon....

Do not destroy the chance of ever experiencing yours...there is no need to steal what rightfully belong to you in courtship, wait for your wedding night.