HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT PARTNER

Choosing the right partner can sometimes be confusing, no one wants to spend the rest of his or her life with a partner they detest from the depth of their being. It is hell living with someone who shouldn't have married in the first place. Check these signs, they are the sure proof you are with the right man/woman for your life.

1. YOU CONNECT: They love what you love. If you love God, they do too. If you are a religious fanatic, they share thesame madness, if you love clubbing, waoh, they go ga-ga with you. Marry the person who is passionate about your passion.

2. THEY RESPECT YOU: Respect stems from admiration. There are things you do that makes them drool...they love to be like you.

3. THEY ARE PROUD OF YOU: It is a bad omen if your partner is ashamed of you, hide you from friends and family and treat you like a necessary evil. Get out of that relationship fast. Your partner should be proud of you, they should flaunt you, they should protect you and speak well of you.

4. THEY ARE GENEROUS: The prove of love is the desire to give. If your partner is stingy and tight fisted, ah! find your way.

5. THEY PROTECT YOU: They avoid doing things that will hurt you. When they offend you, they apologize quickly from the depth of their heart. They hate causing you pain.

6. THEY ARE FAITHFUL: They say goodbye to others and stick to you. Only you...

7. THEY HAVE CHEMISTRY FOR YOU: Now, chemistry is not the major proof of love, sex maniacs have chemistry for prostitutes. What I mean is, you are physically attractive to them and they look forward to merging with you. It's essential for a great marriage. What creates chemistry is beyond beauty and handsomeness, it is spiritual, mental and emotional connection. If it is just beauty then that love is not genuine. 

You can be crippled or ugly, to them you are the most beautiful person in the world and they love to hold and touch you because they don't want to hurt you, they WAIT for you till they MARRY YOU PROPERLY then they consummate... this is important and serious. I don't spiritualize things that need common sense. You need a partner who finds you physically attractive.

I once had a friend who was not physically attractive to me at all. He was handsome, well dressed, used the right cologne and smelled fresh all the time. Ladies flocked arround him with some silently praying he would propose but I could not accept his marriage proposal. In all our 10 years friendship, I only touched him twice. The first was a handshake, the second was to check his temperature when he was sick. I always cringed at the thought of having him in bed beside me...nay, I could not marry him.

8. THEY GIVE YOU UNCONDITIONAL LOVE: They just love you without knowing why. My husband has told me that several times "I love you Seun, I never know why..."

9. YOU HAVE PEACE: If you are always afraid of the future with this person, this is a red flag, please end it and wait for the right person. Your true life partner will give you peace of mind and joy immeasurable...

10. YOU EXPERIENCE BLESSING: You will make progress. Your life begins to attract favour. Doors that are hitherto closed will fling themselves open and your life will take a positive u-turn.