WOMEN KEEP SECRETS TOO!

How will she tell her husband she has a million naira in her bank account, though, she lives like a pauper; if he will not raze it down with his wasteful life style or go mad out of plain jealousy!

How would she tell him his boss at the office was once her boyfriend if he won't send her packing from the house?

How would she tell him she's getting attracted to her colleague at work because he listens to her and compliments her, a responsibility her husband has stopped performing without having her head chopped off with a cutlass?

How will she tell him she belongs to a secret society if he won't lose his head, push her out of the house, tear her clothes to shreds and call her a witch?

How will she tell him her childlessness is due to her past mistakes without risking her secrets being divulged to all her in-laws and everyone on their street?

How can she tell him she hates his mother with passion because she makes her life a living hell on earth without being seen as his worst enemy?

How can she open her heart to a man who is not reliable, dependable and unpredictable? Yes, women too keep secrets.

And it is not healthy for her and the marriage. Women unlike men are always eager to share their hearts. A woman can't keep her secrets for long because it affects her conscience and can't relate properly with those around her but how her husband relates with her will determine whether she opens up or not. Until there is real forgiveness, openness, total acceptance and unconditional love in a marriage, that home won't experience bliss.

Free your wife from her pain, loosen her from her secret tears. Make her a happy woman who laughs from the depth of her heart once again by taking time to listen to her, understand her, appreciate her, accept her totally and forgive her with all your heart.

Learn to keep your family's secret. Let her know whatever she tells you will be safe with you and you won't use it against her. Yes, you won't use it to abuse or ridicule her in future. When a woman knows that her life, heart and thoughts are safe with her husband, she will open up to him easily, share her pains with him and bond with him in a way no woman has ever bonded with him. She will love him more, respect him more, honour him more and enjoy making love to him.

No woman likes to live in isolation, but most men's immaturity and 'undependability' is making their wives create a thick wall between them. Pull down the wall and enjoy deep intimacy with your wife. You will be glad you did. 

Cheers!