Some men say they can never marry a lady who has a child. They call them "Ajeku" and "After One" yet they are the men who run after innocent girls, defile them and deny responsibility for the pregnancy. Some men have no shame!
Men who don't want single mothers should stick to their choice but what makes a woman a great wife is not whether she has had a child or not. Countless ladies have had abortions yet no child before wedding. They look so clean yet rotten inside. Women who chose to have the babies should be respected and honoured not for their mistakes but the courage they showed. They feared God and valued another life than commit murder and save their face from shame.
They are God fearing and compassionate. Two major ingredients needed in a wife. I pity men who allow senseless ego make them miss God's perfect will for their lives.
Single mothers make great wives as well as any God fearing lady. It is our character that determines how we enjoy our marriage not whether we make mistakes in the past or had no previous sexual experience. The world has even gone upside down. Some ladies now use hymen kit/pills that make them look likes virgins on the wedding night. You will see the blood. She acts the painful part yet she has had countless abortions before she met her husband.
Let's go for character guys. A honest single mother is far better than an untruthful and deceitful single lady.
God bless.
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