I mean you are legally married yet you miss your ex lover and wish they were the ones you married instead? About 80% of all married couples feel this way.
The hard reality of marriage is after 2 years of the honeymoon, butterfly in the stomach, head in cloud 9 feelings, the real man/ woman you married with all their weaknesses now stare at you in the face.
You now see things you never bargained for and those weaknesses that run you mad, it's all part of marriage.
No one is perfect, your ex isn't either. If you have to take a peep into their own marriage and see what their spouse are going through, you will thank God you never married them. The grass always look greener on the other side.
Contacting your ex and re-establishing your "friendship" in order to get a little of what you had in those days of yore is a sure recipe for marital disaster.
Learn to face reality and work on your marriage. No one is perfect, likewise your husband or wife. They will make you angry, laugh, sad, frustrated, elated and on top of the world. Above all, they will always be there for you regardless of what happens to you. That is the real test of true love. If your ex truly loves you, they should have married you in the first place, why did they break up with you?
Remember you are not perfect too. Your spouse has learnt to live with you and accept you the way you are. One good turn surely deserves another.
God bless.
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