I WILL CHANGE LATER .

"I will change later" Is a myth. If they cannot change while you are still courting, they won't change after marriage.
A man who smokes and drinks won't change because of you when you get married. If courting him for Methuselah years won't make him quit tobacco and alcohol, you will do well to either bow out of the relationship or accept him lovingly the way he is. People rarely change after marriage.

A lady who insults and 'lambasts' you at any slight provocation won't suddenly turn into a lamb after wedding. All the years of courtship should have transformed her into a Cinderella. If she won't change in courtship, she will not change in marriage.

He cheats on you in courtship and always come back with tears after having sex with them, blaming your abstinence on his gross misconduct. He will still blame you for whatever flimsy excuse he could lay his hand on in marriage for committing adultery.

She flirts around and and enjoys seducing men, yet you see no harm in it; "she's just being sexy", you smile with yourself and rub your stomach in satisfaction for catching a hot chick, don't be shocked if she sleeps around in marriage.

The best time people want to change is in courtship because they are trying hard to win your love. If they disrespect your feelings enough to stubbornly continue with the habits that drives you crazy, it's a sign you are not meant to be together, the earlier you release them to find someone who love them perfectly with their lifestyle, the better for you.

Singles erroneously think there is a magic wand that changes people on the wedding day, that may happen in Disney cartoon, not in real life.

Sit your partner down and come to realistic conclusions before it is too late for both of you. They either stop hurting you or you go your separate ways.