21 LIES YOU’VE BEEN TOLD ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. Marriage is a necessary evil.
2. Finding the right man/woman is difficult.
3. Marriage is a burden.
4. Friendship is not necessary in marriage.
5. People change after marriage.
6. Sexual excitement depletes after the honeymoon.
7. Courtship is more enjoyable than marriage.
8. It’s okay to have sex before marriage.
9. Marriage is a game of luck.
10. Successful marriages happen by chance/luck.
11. Marriage is full of ups and downs.
12. Children are liabilities.
13. Marriage changes your sexual behaviour.
14. Marriage cannot be sweet without money.
15. Courtship ends as marriage begins.
16. In-laws are evil and unloving.
17. Marriage is unpredictable.
18. Money scatters marriage.
19. Age determines readiness for marriage.
20. To avoid pressure from in-laws, give them babies 9months after wedding.
21. In Marriage it’s risky to tell your spouse everything.

MARRIAGE IS A JOURNEY

Marriage is a LIFE LONG journey. It is a journey into the far away future. It is a journey of Destiny. The journey is long, deep, and wide. It is particularly shocking the way people rush into it these days without ever taking a second thought about what they are about to embark upon. Little wonder we have a lot of casualties, who have got not just their fingers burnt but their entire bodies.

KNOWLEDGE IS POWER !

Nothing gives you a handle on anything like knowledge. A good marriage begins with a good understanding. Nothing gives you a handle on marriage like knowledge. Marital bliss is a function of the knowledge you operate with. Without adequate knowledge marriage becomes a mess and a disaster. 

HOW TO FIND A LIFE PARTNER … effortlessly! 1

The easiest thing I have done in my life is finding a life partner. Yeah! Finding a life partner is the easiest thing you and I could ever be asked to do. In fact it’s as simple as A,B,C…

MAINTAINING YOUR MARRIAGE

Getting married is one, maintaining your marriage is another. It’s just like the difference between buying a beautiful and rugged car and giving it a good maintenance. You purchase your car only once but you maintain if for life or for as long as you wish to keep that car. 

BURY YOUR PAST

Candidly, God is not interested in your past. The only interest he has is helping you wipe your slate clean and giving you a great future. 

It amazes me, how intelligent people keep going about with a load of guilt on their head. Everyone has a past, no one is a saint! Some simply look holier than others because they know how to HIDE theirs well. It's as simple as that.