A WOMAN'S MOUTH.

It is not just meant for kissing but for edifying, encouraging others and being a blessing to the world but what does most women use their mouths to do? Lord Almighty! You can see the effect all around them. The husband has a battered self esteem, the children are abusive and the neighbours hate them with passion.

CAN "AS" AND "AS" GET MARRIED?

It has to do with your faith, there is no fast rule about it. If your faith says, you can survive without giving birth to SS children, carry go but if your faith can't carry it and you can't watch your child suffer, "abeg", pull a break.

LEAVE ME ALONE HONEY...

Sometimes men appear over bearing, protective and excessively jealous in relationships especially marriage. When a man loves a woman and plans to spend the rest of his life with her, he watches over her like a hawk. If women do not understand this, we can mistake it for possessiveness and insecurity.

WHEN A MAN BEATS HIS WIFE.

Now, I do not support domestic violence, under no circumstance should a sane man beat his wife- but, there are women who drives their husbands to insanity!

Some women won't just sit tight until they earn at least a slap from a frustrated man. Most women who get beaten pushed their husbands to do it.

IS YOUR PAST HAUNTING YOU?

Every one has a past. No one is a saint. No one drops from the sky and has his feet free of dirt. We have all done something we wish we didn't do. No matter how trivial it is, everyone has made some mistakes in the past.

I LIKE YOU BUT I DON'T LOVE YOU

It's very much possible to like someone and not love them one bit. I mean you have no romantic love for them: no chemistry, no deep connection, nothing except that they are good and you like them, no more, no less. It happens!

WHY WON'T YOU ACCEPT ME THE WAY I AM?

A man who GENUINELY loves you accepts your total package: strengths, weaknesses, beauty, ugliness, dirt, grime and all. 

Your past, present or future does not affect his love for you.

I HATE YOU!!!

There are couples who hate each other to the point of murder.

They did not start that way, in fact, they started as great lovers but years of negligence and taking each other for granted killed every bit of love they have for each other.

THE JEALOUS WIVES

Jealous wives are a real pain in the neck. No man can have a jealous wife and live in peace. Jealous wives make the lives of their husbands perfect hell on earth.

CELEBRATING AN ICON: JIDE OLAOKE

He is a guru at what he does. He is a top internet marketer, business man, speaker, mentor and life coach but much more importantly, he is a down to earth epitome of humility, grace, compassion and wisdom. When he opens his mouth, life transforming words flow out and not a few people have been transformed from the doldrums of poverty to the life of prosperity and yes, Jide Olaoke is also a philanthropist to the core!

OVERCOMING SEXUAL TEMPTATION

Oh, you think the moment you get married you will no longer be tempted? Sexual temptation happens to everyone whether single or married, young or old, white or black, sinner or saint, Pastor or ordinary church member, Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, Atheists, everyone.

NO, YOU CAN'T HANDLE A WOMAN

I've heard many men boast no woman can floor them. Excuse me sir, any woman can floor you if you do not take necessary precautions.

NO, YOU CAN'T HANDLE A MAN

Most ladies who complain men used them and dumped them didn't understand what they were getting into when they decided to date a user.

NO SEX PLEASE!

Sex to a man is more than physical pleasure. Sex is conquest, it is an achievement of a sort; it is the affirmation of manhood. This may sound stupid and senseless to a woman but to a man it is not.

TOO OLD FOR LOVE-MAKING?

Passionate sex should be forever. Men are never too old for sex. A man likes sex, wants sex and thinks sex whether he is 25, 60 or 90.

WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE BECOMES BORING...

                                                                    

  A time comes when the thrill of sex wears out, the excitement of wedding ring dies down, showing off your hubby becomes stale and the routine of going to work, running the family and working hard to stay relevant in the society takes over.

WHY ARE YOU NOT MARRIED?

                                                                                                    

Do you want to put an end to your singleness, many years of frustration and shame and get married quick? Here are the things you need to do:

HOW TO AVOID BEING RAPED

 

1. Rape happens on daily basis. Any sexual activity without your consent qualifies as rape whether from your boyfriend, uncle, father or fiancé. Getting the early signs that this guy is interested in having sex with you will save you lots of tears in future.

SELL YOUR SELF

No, no, no, no . I'm not asking you to go to Idumota market, place yourself on the table and put a big FOR SALE sign on your forehead, no! I mean, make your talent visible to the world.

HOW TO MAKE A MAN LOVE YOU LIKE CRAZY

 

Have you ever seen a man madly in love with a woman? He acts as if possessed. His world stands still and the woman becomes his new world. He is blind to other women, deaf to complains about her and puts his entire life in her hands. People may call this man a dummy, they may say his wife has hypnotized him, they may even try to "rescue" him from the hands of the "witch", no matter what anybody says, he will not leave her. He is absolutely faithful, committed and loyal to her till his last breath -he loves her with all his being.

THE JEALOUS HUSBANDS

These are the most difficult human beings to live with. They make the lives of their wives a perfect hell on earth and ensures she regrets marrying them.

SORRY, I CAN'T MARRY YOU.

There are some things we can't cope with in marriage, there are some habits you can't manage. One habit I can’t accept in a man -any man is lying.

I love to trust. When you tell me "a" I believe you from the depth of my heart and I plan my life around the "a", to come around and tell me something else entirely can shatter me to pieces. So, I knew long before I got married that I can NEVER settle down with a liar, I can't even manage him.

DIRTY SECRETS

Hmmmm....marriage is so simple and sweet but people like to complicate things. Some people are just not balanced until their life is complicated -a complicated person makes a complicated marriage.

Keeping secrets from your spouse is one habit that will surely land you in trouble.

THE HUNTERS

A man is a HUNTER and he likes to CONQUER. A very beautiful, highly intelligent, talented or super successful lady is a huge challenge to these hunters so they rush after her not because they love her but because they want to conquer her. 

Men like this are incapable of loving women. They are simply users. They crave the admiration of their fellow men and will do anything to get it including breaking innocent ladies’ hearts. Have you heard of celebrities whose marriages crashed few months/years after the wedding? The man had accomplished his mission: to prove to the world he could marry her, sleep with her and dump her.

JUST FRIENDS?

        

You can swear to God there is nothing between both of you. If you do the following as a married person in friendship with the opposite sex, you have crossed the line and you are having an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR.

1. You are always excited each time you think about your friend. You feel butterflies in your stomach and your head swoon to cloud nine.

2. You day-dream about them and their name fills your tongue most hours of the day.

3. You always want to talk to them.

4. Discussion has shifted from objective to subjective. Logic to emotion, professionalism to careless jokes
and banters.

5. You are beginning to take note of how they look physically.

6. You start dressing for them, not for your spouse anymore.