HAUNTED!!!

The past haunts! There are some mistakes you make in your past that unless the Lord have mercy on you, wash away your sins with His blood and give you the grace to move on will haunt you forever.

ABOUT IN-LAWS

There are some frictions we have with our spouses and in-laws that are totally avoidable if only we apply wisdom and learn to keep our mouths shut when necessary.

DON'T SHOW IT!

A tall, handsome man can make a woman stagger! No matter how much you admire him, don't show it. Don't stammer and lose your balance. Show yourself some respect; keep a straight face, soft look and get busy.

THE POWER OF A GOSSIP

A gossip is a raging inferno. Backbiters know how to set a whole city on fire. Any relationship that must experience bliss must shut gossips and backbiters out of their lives.

ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT HONEYMOON?

When some people talk about honeymoon, I wonder what they are talking about.

Honeymoon is for the bride and groom who wants to get physically intimate with each other for the first time. It is called honeymoon because, love-making with the one you love, for the first time leaves chemistry super high, expectations great and seeing your lover's full naked body for the FIRST TIME, gives you an adrenaline high you have never experienced before.

This leaves you very excited. Honeymoon is a period of sexual exploration and discovery...it's something, I can't just describe. It's rapturous, exciting and superb. Seeing your spouse' naked body alone leaves you excited yet shy and elated.

Lots of singles have destroyed their chances of honeymoon in courtship. They've had all the sex they could ever get as if their partners would run away and wonder why the honeymoon was tasteless. Honeymoon? The honey has long been finished before they got to the moon!

There is really nothing NEW to look forward to. The beauty of sexual discovery is destroyed forever. The trust of your spouse that you can WAIT for them is long gone. The joy of being known intimately by your husband/wife has been killed. While in courtship you felt guilty for engaging in pre-marital sex along with the fear of losing your fiance/fiancee. On the wedding night you still felt guilty for not waiting to be discovered for the first time. Then what's the use? Why the rush?

Oh, that joy of being seen on your wedding night for the first time, just the way you are after the bride price has been paid, your parents have been honoured, your spouse has pledged before God and man to love, cherish and honour you forever...

What joy it is to be uncovered and stand before him or her shameless, beautiful, pure and chaste? That is honeymoon....

Do not destroy the chance of ever experiencing yours...there is no need to steal what rightfully belong to you in courtship, wait for your wedding night.

GOOD MEN ARE NOT SCARCE!

Our mindset is so powerful! What you think, ruminate and meditate on runs and rules your life. If you believe you will have a hard time getting the right man to marry, you may end up with the wrong man in marriage! It breaks my heart when I hear young ladies lament the scarcity of good men. Good men are not scarce! They are everywhere. Ask God to open your eyes to see and identify yours!

BROKEN MARRIAGE

Some marriages are completely broken beyond repair but God is still very much in the business of restoring broken marriages. All you have to do is locate His will, trust Him with your heart, study the word a lot and be a man or woman of prayer.

YOU WANT TRUE LOVE? BE YOURSELF!

Never change your personality because you want to marry or please anybody, only please God. Be yourself, stay true to yourself and firmly stand for what you believe in.

BE WISE LADIES...

If any man ask you, "Are you a virgin?" Tell him your status is for you and your husband to know not for live broadcast on CNN!

SAVE YOURSELF FROM HEART BREAK!

Your heart is too precious to be broken by anybody. Protect it all cost. The Holy Book says, "Guard your heart with all diligence...." so that one child of Satan will not make a mess of your life. Be smart in your relationships, don't allow anybody damage you!

BACK OUT!

If you had a good relationship with your EX (no sex was involved while you were dating), and you wish to continue the friendship now that you are married, make sure you carry their spouse along. 

For instance, as a woman, don't just be friends with your EX, be friends, infact, very good friends with his wife as well. As a man, be friends with her husband as well.

If they always block you from talking to or meeting their spouse, something is definitely wrong somewhere, back out from that relationship.

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CHANGE!!!

Adapting to one's partner in marriage is not easy. It takes the special grace of God and genuine love for your partner to do that. It's not easy changing a habit that has lived with you for decades but if you must succeed in marriage, you must adapt to your partner whether you like it or not! Yes, I mean whether you like it or not!