When some people talk about honeymoon, I wonder what they are talking about.
Honeymoon is for the bride and groom who wants to get physically intimate with each other for the first time. It is called honeymoon because, love-making with the one you love, for the first time leaves chemistry super high, expectations great and seeing your lover's full naked body for the FIRST TIME, gives you an adrenaline high you have never experienced before.
This leaves you very excited. Honeymoon is a period of sexual exploration and discovery...it's something, I can't just describe. It's rapturous, exciting and superb. Seeing your spouse' naked body alone leaves you excited yet shy and elated.
Lots of singles have destroyed their chances of honeymoon in courtship. They've had all the sex they could ever get as if their partners would run away and wonder why the honeymoon was tasteless. Honeymoon? The honey has long been finished before they got to the moon!
There is really nothing NEW to look forward to. The beauty of sexual discovery is destroyed forever. The trust of your spouse that you can WAIT for them is long gone. The joy of being known intimately by your husband/wife has been killed. While in courtship you felt guilty for engaging in pre-marital sex along with the fear of losing your fiance/fiancee. On the wedding night you still felt guilty for not waiting to be discovered for the first time. Then what's the use? Why the rush?
Oh, that joy of being seen on your wedding night for the first time, just the way you are after the bride price has been paid, your parents have been honoured, your spouse has pledged before God and man to love, cherish and honour you forever...
What joy it is to be uncovered and stand before him or her shameless, beautiful, pure and chaste? That is honeymoon....
Do not destroy the chance of ever experiencing yours...there is no need to steal what rightfully belong to you in courtship, wait for your wedding night.
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