Are you the one who makes the
phone call, drag him to chat, spend on him, do everything he asks without
thinking yet he won't commit to you? The answer is simple. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU,
period!
You cannot force love on a man. If
he loves you, he loves you, if he doesn't, he doesn't. Giving him sex and all
the money in your bank account won't change his mind.
Men are not stupid my sister. They are down to
earth logical and calculative. They think wide and make sound analysis. When
you give him free sex and money he sees you as desperate and the last thing he
ever wants to do is take you to the altar. Why? Something is definitely wrong
with you. Why are you desperate? What are you lacking? Why are you chasing him?
You've got tons and tons of hidden problems that oozes out to him and he's not
ready to fix them. Infact, he's scared you are going to choke him with
incessant demands for for love and attention which he doesn't have so he takes
to his heels.
Most ladies who complained men
used and dumped them are not being sincere. The men gave them all the signals
but they refused to pick it. They were so focused on his hot body, fat bank balance or the exotic car
he rides that they were ready to do ANYTHING to make him theirs for life. That
may happen in Hollywood movies but not in real life. A man cannot spend the
rest of his life with a woman he doesn't love. Sooner or later, he meets the
woman who lets him be the MAN and give her the chase.
It is the responsibility of the
man to chase you, stop doing that job for him. Let him chase you baby. Leave
that first phone call for him, let him
do it. NEVER go to his house without invitation. Do not do his chores! He
hasn't married you for crying out loud. Why would you wash his clothes, fetch
water and have sex with him? Why are you TRYING HARD to CONVINCE him?
No matter how much you are in love
with a man, never give him the signal. Do not make the first move. Keep your
passion to your pocket and let him find you. If he doesn't go out of his way to
reach you then you don't matter to him, its as simple as that. You can't force
a man to notice you lady. A man notices the woman he's in love with. He can
pick her in a million crowd and risk his life to make her his forever.
Give him some work to do. Don't make yourself
too easy to get. A man appreciates what he fights hard to get but despise what
he gets so easily. I'm not asking you to be rude to men. Be nice and friendly
but never be too available. Never pick a man's first phone call, let him call
again to show his seriousness.Don't give him the notion that your life is empty
and you desperately needs him to fill it.
I want you to enjoy a blissful
relationship. You've suffered enough in the hands of irresponsible men. Now is
the time to get your life back and allow the man who truly loves find you and
celebrate you.
You are meant to be loved,
cherished, celebrated, honoured and valued, please don't make yourself cheap.
God bless you. Cheers!
Inspiring
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