It has to do with your faith, there is no fast rule about it. If your faith says, you can survive without giving birth to SS children, carry go but if your faith can't carry it and you can't watch your child suffer, "abeg", pull a break.
I have seen AS couples give birth to sound AA children and I've seen the ones whose firstborns were SS. I have seen couples go through sleepless nights, tears and pain and I've seen others experience absolute bliss on their children's health.
Candidly, I believe in marrying the person you love instead of the person whose genotype match yours. AS couples who deeply love each other weathered the storm together and gave their best to their marriages while those who married based on healthy genotype without love experienced great marital crisis. The choice is yours.
There is a story of a man who left his fiancee because of her genotype. He married someone else and few years later, he discovered he was really AA and not AS, he slumped and wept hard, he had missed his TRUE LOVE because of the wrong lab result given to him. Please, always cross check and double check your results before making conclusions.
Finding and living with your TRUE LOVE is not a joke. It is not a myth either. You've got to have God and genuine love at the foundation of your marriage.
Please do proper marriage counselling before you rush to the altar. Be honest with your fiance/fiancee. Let them know your genotype before they marry you. The person who loves you will marry you whether you are AA, AS or SS and the one who will not love you will not even if you are the healthiest human being on earth.
Lastly, marrying AS or SS, depends on your FAITH. If you ABSOLUTELY believe you will not have SS children, you will not. If you can pray ahead of your marriage and your partner is God's WILL for you, God is not deaf, He will answer you speedily and either change your genotype or give you AA children, it all depend on your faith, not hope but sound, solid, unshakable faith.
Don't allow anybody confuse you or choose whom you are to marry, the choice is absolutely yours. Enjoy your freedom.
Peace...
Madam, do you really think its safe for two 'AS' to marry?
ReplyDeleteCarefully going through the article, you will notice I didn't indicate if its safe or not. Whether it is safe now or dangerous fully depends on individuals i.e. how far you can see and the size of obstacles your Faith can crush. Thanks for your question; hope I've answered it.
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