JUST FRIENDS?

        

You can swear to God there is nothing between both of you. If you do the following as a married person in friendship with the opposite sex, you have crossed the line and you are having an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR.

1. You are always excited each time you think about your friend. You feel butterflies in your stomach and your head swoon to cloud nine.

2. You day-dream about them and their name fills your tongue most hours of the day.

3. You always want to talk to them.

4. Discussion has shifted from objective to subjective. Logic to emotion, professionalism to careless jokes
and banters.

5. You are beginning to take note of how they look physically.

6. You start dressing for them, not for your spouse anymore.


7. You compare them with your spouse.

8. You sense a deep connection. They understand you better than your spouse.

9. You get easily irritated by your spouse. You see your friend as a perfect angel while your spouse's
weaknesses swallowed all their strengths.

10. You discuss your marital problems with them and you secretly wish you marry them instead.

11. The chemistry for them is high. You find yourself aroused at the thought of them.

12. You often masturbate with their pictures in your mind instead of having sex with your spouse.

13. Even when you have sex, you replace your spouse with their thought. You can't enjoy sex without imagining they were the one doing it to you.

14. Your discussion with them is getting sexual. I.e "You look sexy today," "I love your moustache", "Your husband will enjoy touching you.", " You've got a great figure", etc.

15. You always delete all your e-mails and chats with them.

16. You change their gender on your contact. E.g George becomes Jane and Magarette becomes Malvin.

17. Your spouse is getting suspicious and jealous.

18. You feel guilty each time you talk to them.

19. You experience emotional roller coaster.

20. You are thinking of divorcing your spouse and marrying them.

Need I say more? These are emotional affair signs and you will do well to take a reverse gear or make a   U-turn before you do something you will regret.

 Most people usually see nothing wrong with this relationship because sex has not been involved but with the sexual tension built overtime, sooner or later you will find yourself completely naked in bed with your affair partner. It happens all the time.

Emotional affair is a sign all is not well in your marriage. Your needs have gone unmet for a long time which made you clicked with that man or woman who exhibits these qualities.

It's time to sit your spouse down and get your marriage back on track. Let your spouse know you are suffering and getting tempted to have an affair.

 If you discuss with them in an atmosphere of love, compassion and understanding, they will get the message, adjust fast and save yourself from the heart wrenching consequence of adultery.

 Please let go of that friendship, you are not just friends...