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Wednesday, 9 September 2015

WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE BECOMES BORING...



                                                                    
  A time comes when the thrill of sex wears out, the excitement of wedding ring dies down, showing off your hubby becomes stale and the routine of going to work, running the family and working hard to stay relevant in the society takes over.


Now is the time to inject life into your marriage instead of looking for a brand new friend to fill that void.

Break routine. Same dish, recipe, dressing, sex style and ways of doing things can change. All you need is newness and freshness. Use your creative power to perform signs and wonders in your marriage. Change the sitting arrangement in your sitting room. Re-paint your bedroom. Use bold colours or any colour that branch off from your regular. Introduce a new set of snacks in your cooking. Set the ball rolling.

Date again. It's time to go on date. Book in a hotel/guest house you can afford or go to the beach, restaurant or eatery. Just go out, only the two of you. Keep the children with grandma and spend some quality time with your spouse.

Make a major change on your appearance which your spouse may like and you are okay with. Get a new hair cut or hair do. Slim down. Get a new set of underwear. Change your cologne (perfume). Leave the skirts for now and wear trousers or form fitting gowns and vice versa.
Do bold things. Kiss her in public. Grab her hand and run with her, it looks silly but it sure adds fun. Lift her and swing her around. Offer to undress her for a week or more. Assist with the dishes. Participate in what goes on in the home. Break the I- go-to-work-and-don't-have-time-routine. Spend quality time with your wife.

Sex adventure. Change your sex style. It's only the two of you so no need to be shy. Try sitting or standing. Leave the bed alone for now. Try the couch. Move over the sitting room, bathroom or kitchen. Try making love under the dining table or on the dining table! It looks silly, that's what makes it fun. You can also add fellatio or blow job to your love making if you are comfortable with it. Do something new to keep your spouse asking for more.

New pet names make your spouse sweet. They may be tired of hearing "Darling", "Sweetheart", "Honey". That's good in public but in the privacy of your bedroom, you might be a little daring and sassy. Try "My honey pot" and "Sugar candy", it sure makes your spouse feel sexy.

Daily routine can make a marriage boring. We must keep doing all in our power to make our marriage heaven on earth. God has given you the power. You must use it to your own advantage.

God bless you.

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