WHY ARE YOU NOT MARRIED?

                                                                                                    

Do you want to put an end to your singleness, many years of frustration and shame and get married quick? Here are the things you need to do:


1. DRESS YOUR AGE/LOOK YOUNG: No man wants to marry his mother. Put aside the regular iro and buba and all the oversize blouses, shirts and skirts and package yourself for marriage. Get fitted tops, nice, form fitting skirts, smart foot wears and expose your beauty (not your body).

2. PROPER GROOMING: Men are more affected in this area. Body and mouth odour can turn anybody off. A lady who wants to get married fast must learn to be clean from head to toe. Exercise, diet and keep to shape. Men must learn to avoid bad breath, tangled hair and body odour. Change your boxers, singlets, inner wears daily. Shave your armpit and all unwanted hair that accumulate sweat and allow cool breeze to blow away pungent odour. You might do well to get good cologne (perfume) if the body odour is persistent. Take good care of your foot wears as well.
3. ACT YOUNG: Ladies who act like they are older than everyone around them chase men away fast without knowing. A man wants a woman he can lead and father not the one who bosses him around and makes him feel like a child. Keep a young spirit and learn to be very humble. No man wants a proud, arrogant, bossy, domineering lady. Even if you are older than Methuselah or richer than Bill Gates, keep that to yourself and learn to be humble.

4. EXPOSE YOURSELF: You can't attract your life partner if you are always with daddy and watch Television 24/7. Go out; attend seminars, workshops and singles programmes. Make new friends, join positive groups, and serve in your local church. Be visible and a blessing to the world.

5. BE FRIENDLY: A friendly man or woman has lots of prospects. People like this usually get married fast. Learn to be friendly with people. Smile when greeting. Call people by their names; be polite, comely and approachable.

6. GET BUSY: Full time house wife is no longer trendy. Get something doing with your life instead if waiting for Prince Charming to come and rescue you from the doldrums of poverty. Mr. Prince Charming is also looking for a woman to rescue him from his struggles. Prepare to be a blessing to your man and not a burden.

No man should be seen tying wrapper with a chewing stick in his mouth at 10 am in the morning. A man must learn to be hardworking and responsible. If you have no job, go out and look for job. Start a business. Do something meaningful no matter how small, just don't be lazy or idle while waiting for a rich woman to come and rescue you. If you allow a lady take over your bills, you have sold your manhood for life.

7. DEVELOP WIFELY QUALITIES: Be humble, learn how to talk. Interact with married women and watch the way they behave. You can't plan to get married soon and be attending night clubs. Learn to be obedient to authorities. Be mature in the way you deal with people. Learn to be a virtuous woman.

8. TREAT LADIES WITH RESPECT: Crude, uncultured, ill-mannered and outright stupid men are a huge turn off. Learn how to treat women. Be mature, gentle, polite, loving and caring. Show courtesy to ladies. Learn social etiquette. Move aside and allow a lady to pass first in a crowded place. Assist women who struggle with heavy loads. Learn to be a friend, husband and father.

9. AVOID PRE-MARITAL SEX: I t destroys your reputation and makes men see you as a public property. Promiscuous men are not number one on any serious lady's list. They are afraid you will chase other women in marriage and leave them emotionally battered for life.

10. GET KNOWLEDGE: Read good books and listen to good messages on attracting the right partner.

11. PRAY: Candidly, some delay are not normal, they are spiritual in nature. If you notice the regular pattern of ladies/ men marrying late in your family, you are dealing with a generational curse. Get good books on breaking generational curses and pray hard to deliver yourself. You can also enlist the help of a mature, anointed man of God to help you get to the root of this issue. It's not something to joke with. You can apply every known principle in the world, if you do not remove the curse from your life, it will not work. Same for men; make research on your family tree and deal with every issue causing marital delay.

12 . COVENANTS: are powerful. Either blood covenant or word covenant. All those words you utter in the heat of sexual passion can also work against you. Words like "You are mine forever", "I will never leave you," "I can never marry anyone except you", "My life is empty without you" etc.

13. LAZINESS: Refusal to do the things you need to do to get married on time because it is not convenient or they are too difficult will not help you.

You can get married at the right time and put an end to your loneliness. Do the right things. Act on time and see God put laughter on your face.

You will succeed.