Marriages will be heaven on earth if couples will learn to speak the truth to each other on daily basis. Most marriages are based on lies! lies!! lies!!!
The husband deceives the wife she's looking great so as not to hurt her feelings yet he is always angry each time he sees her in native wears. The wife tells lies to the husband a Kilo of turkey costs #3,000 instead of telling him she needs #2,300 because of fear of rejection.
'Wifey' inflates price of goods bought from the market, hubby always smile at 'wifey' to make her feel good and hide his boiling rage and anger, both of them are simply two disasters going somewhere to happen.
Speaking the truth is not easy but it will save you lots of headache in future. Hiding information from your spouse is not healthy for your marriage. Learn to build a daily habit of trust. Your spouse may not like what you say but at least you clear your mind and leave the impression that you are a honest person instead of waiting for issues to pile up and up until a secret leaks and there is an explosion.
Singles should not marry someone they can not be free with and open their hearts to. It's dangerous for any marriage. Every blissful marriage is built on the foundation of truth and honesty. Learn to always come clean to your spouse, it pays on the long run.
God bless.
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