It's very easy to develop hypertension or heart attack, just try to please everybody, that's all.
Learn to own your limits! You can't always be every where for everybody on daily basis, you are not God.
Don't allow anybody make you feel guilty for wanting a little space. some people are very good at manipulating others. They make others feel guilty for their own self imposed problems and misfortunes.
We should help others but we shouldn't destroy our happiness and peace of mind while doing so.
There are lots of people who have destroyed their marriages, career, business, precious relationships and lives because they said yes, when they ought to have said a big, fat NO!
Learn to say NO. I learnt the hard way that I can't help everybody. If you do not know how to live your life and allow people to run you down, you will live miserably and the same people will blame you for being so stupid.
If you need rest, rest. If you need a break, take a break. If you need to invest, invest. If you need to save, save. If you want to keep your virginity/chastity, say a clean clear NO to pre-marital sex. You don't want to commit adultery, say NO to lusty men/women. You want to make heaven, say NO to sin. You want to be strong, say NO to fear. You can't make an appointment, say NO.
There are times we need to make sacrifices for others but if doing so will destroy your life and everything you hold so dear, you need a re-think.
Jesus already died for the sins of the whole world, why must you carry the burden on yourself?
Learn to set your priorities right. You will respect yourself more and your life will take a new shape.
Learn to say NO. I learnt the hard way that I can't help everybody. If you do not know how to live your life and allow people to run you down, you will live miserably and the same people will blame you for being so stupid.
If you need rest, rest. If you need a break, take a break. If you need to invest, invest. If you need to save, save. If you want to keep your virginity/chastity, say a clean clear NO to pre-marital sex. You don't want to commit adultery, say NO to lusty men/women. You want to make heaven, say NO to sin. You want to be strong, say NO to fear. You can't make an appointment, say NO.
There are times we need to make sacrifices for others but if doing so will destroy your life and everything you hold so dear, you need a re-think.
Jesus already died for the sins of the whole world, why must you carry the burden on yourself?
Learn to set your priorities right. You will respect yourself more and your life will take a new shape.
God bless.
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