You can't force yourself on people. There are people who are plain sick and tired of you and they want to have nothing to do with you anymore. It doesn't mean you are bad. It plain means both or all of you are no more compatible, you have outgrown what brought you together and your future no longer head the same direction.
It's a pity some people don't get it till they become source of irritation and a nuisance to the other person. Here are the signs your friendship is over and your friend wants out of the relationship.
1. They are ignoring you. They ignore your calls or fail to respond to your messages.
2. They respond to you in monosyllables. In other words, they always give you one word answer in response to your open ended questions e.g "What's so interesting about your job?" Answer: "Nothing."
3. They stop introducing you to people as their friend.
4. They snap at you or sound irritated each time you call.
5. Your meeting them always end in argument.
6. No matter how hard you try, your relatiomship never goes back to the way it was. It's time to let go.
Your friendship is over and it's time for you to move on with your life.
It's understandable you really love them and care about them but love is not one sided, it's a two way affair. If you are the only one showing all the love and care then the relationship is sick and needs serious assessment.
Let it go and move on with your life.
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