This post is for married couples. Singles who actively pursue sex do so to their own peril.
There is no accidental success in sex. You've got to put your heart and mind into it. You need lots of DISCIPLINE and hard work to enjoy sex. Millions of people think sexual enjoyment is automatic, once you get married, everything will work out fine, then they get married and after six months to two years, they are sick and tired of the sex.
Sex is an ART you need to LEARN. It is not based on animalistic instinct. You don't just jump into bed with your wife, come in and out three times and rush out of the bedroom. What the hell do you think you are doing?
Sex starts with fondness and emotional bonding. That creates the chemistry for body merging. Communication is the fuel for chemistry. You have to build a daily habit of communicating peacefully and lovingly with your spouse, when you feel good around them, you want to merge with them.
Next is fore-play. Most African men are always in a hurry to arrive at their destination that they forget to enjoy the scenes along the way, no woman will enjoy that. A man needs lots of discipline to patiently work on his wife's body before she gets ready for sex and that takes at least 30 minutes.
I won't go into details on the real act itself because I know singles are reading this with their eyes almost popping out of their sockets. You can visit my blog for more explicit posts on sexual intimacy.
READ! There is no secret to any success without knowledge. Too many couples know little or next to nothing about sex, any wander their marriages are in trouble?
Millions of books have been published on the subject of sex. Go online, offline, bookshops and good churches for books on enjoying a successful sexual life in marriage. You will be glad you did.
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