IT'S OVER!!!

Divorce is increasing at an alarming rate. It is not only a plague afflicting the west, it has spread to other parts of the world as well. People now find it easy to dispose their partners the way they dispose used tissue paper. No one can enjoy marriage without the spirit of patience and endurance or else, they keep divorcing and re-marrying up to their tenth marriages!

A marriage that will work must have God at the center and two adults who are ready to serve each other. You wake up each day with a desire to be a blessing to your spouse and think of ways to make their lives better. You accept them completely -appreciating their strengths while you complement their weaknesses with your own strengths.

People marry for very selfish reasons these days; any wander the marriage breaks down at any slight provocation? The man wants a woman who can bear his children, slave in the kitchen and service his sexual need 247 whether she likes it or not while the woman married him basically for the money. She needed lots of cash to waste on her frivolous lifestyle. Marriage based on selfish reasons can't last.

lf you cannot love your partner regardless of what they do or they don't do, your marriage can't last. You soon get tired of the money and sex and long for deep love, the number one ingredient you never had in the first place.

I've seen too many heartaches in this type of marriages and I'm sick and tired of it. Learn to set your priorities right and put God first. There is more to a marriage than bearing a "Mrs", giving birth to children and having sex. You marry to love and be loved and fulfill the purpose for which you are created. Don't set up yourself for divorce. 

God bless.