IT'S TIME FOR FAMILY PLANNING .

I'm a tradition breaker. I hate rituals and popular opinions that do nobody any good. One of such terrible beliefs is you can have as many children as you want, God will take care of them. Gosh! Why are orphanages booming? 

God is not taking responsibility for somebody's stupidity. God won't send those children to school neither will he give them balanced diet. He won't buy good clothes for them either. That's your responsibility...he gave you brain to think and free will to make your choice, it's your responsibility to have only the number of children you can conveniently cater for.

Some couples only have children to please people. They are scared someone will think they are barren. So they have children as soon as they get married and throw them into the cold hands of fate.

Why MUST you have a baby 9 months after wedding? Do you have the capacity to take care of a child yet? Raising children goes beyond money; you need mental, physical, emotional and psychological maturity to do it. Are you mature enough? If not, enjoy your honey moon and save child rearing till you are ready.

It's not COMPULSORY to have children.There ain't anything wrong with me if I choose to have one child.There is no where it is written in the Bible that barely after your child hits two, another baby should pop out! There is no law that forbids waiting for as long as you want before your next baby arrive, NO LAW!

Some give the biological clock ticking away as an excuse to go in and out of labour room year in, year out. Simply calculate your fertile years and plan within that range.

Child rearing is a huge responsibility. Raising godly children in this generation takes a lot of guts, maturity, sacrifice, time, resources, wisdom and simple common sense. I'm sick and tired of seeing teenage mothers, teenage robbers, homeless children, child hawkers, sophisticated riff-raffs and so many empty-brained bastards roaming the streets in school uniforms, honest, the list is endless.

Let us stop bringing children to the world to suffer.We should have only the ones we can cater for. 

You will succeed...