Can a married woman remain friends with her ex lover?
The answer is capital letter NO!
Feelings don't die.You can hide, repress or suppress it but like petrol, once it sees fire, it takes a mighty leap and explode!
It is dangerous to continue with a man who was your first love, deflowered you or you were madly in love with. The whole relationship may seem innocent at first but overtime as you keep talking, you find residue feelings leaping out and you start connecting again, that is the beginning of most extra-marital affairs.
Check your conscience, do you feel right about it? Can you tell your spouse EVERYTHING that ever transpired between both of you? If you honestly can't, it's better you let them go and focus on your marriage.
The truth is no one can take the place of your spouse, you must respect and honour them by giving them the first place after God in your life. Any person fighting for this position is an intruder and an enemy of your marriage.
It is dangerous to continue with a man who was your first love, deflowered you or you were madly in love with. The whole relationship may seem innocent at first but overtime as you keep talking, you find residue feelings leaping out and you start connecting again, that is the beginning of most extra-marital affairs.
Check your conscience, do you feel right about it? Can you tell your spouse EVERYTHING that ever transpired between both of you? If you honestly can't, it's better you let them go and focus on your marriage.
The truth is no one can take the place of your spouse, you must respect and honour them by giving them the first place after God in your life. Any person fighting for this position is an intruder and an enemy of your marriage.
Do not compromise your marital bliss for anything.
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