A lot of women especially married women have very low self
esteem due to their body image. Let's face it, God gave women a fabulous body!
Two firm breasts, a flat stomach and another great asset right behind, topped
with well carved eyes, nose and soft lips. God is the best artist anyone can
imagine!
No woman wants to lose her shape but many years of marriage
and childbirth leave their marks and to the woman's dismay, her breasts sag,
her stomach distends, she loses the muscle tone behind and her eyes carry weary
bags underneath. She may even begin to notice some grey hair before the age of
40!
If she has a loving and understanding husband who focuses
more on her inner beauty and always admire her, all is well but if she marries
a fault finder who finds her repulsive, it can KILL her self esteem,
COMPLETELY!
I meet too many beautiful, intelligent women with very low
self esteem and it breaks my heart to pieces. I can't stand it, I can't afford
to see damaged adults with pleading eyes begging to be loved it always leaves
me with pain.
Alright, if you are married to a man who gets worried about
your looks, there is really a lot you can do about it. You don't need to leave
anything to chance. You can look fabulous and win your husband's admiration
again.
1. FOR BAGGY EYES:
Smile a lot, it narrows your eyes and makes you appear more beautiful. Everyone
loves a smiling woman and it takes habit, daily practice to smile at people. It
doesn't depend on circumstances. Avoid looking tired and get plenty of rest
after a hard day job.
2. FOR SMALL OR SAGGING BREASTS:
Wear well padded, push up bra and avoid bras that give you a sagging look. Yes,
your hubby knows they aren't firm and sees them all the time but you can give
him a better look often by wearing beautiful, colourful push up bras that makes
your breasts look fuller and rounder at the surface.
3. FOR A BIG TUMMY due to fibroid, you may need to go for surgery to remove the
fibroids (discuss with your husband) and for post pregnancy abscess that
refuses to go down, practice kegel exercise, try trainers and other products
that helps you achieve a better look. Be very careful though, there are lots of
products out there that are very dangerous to
woman's health. Make adequate, thorough research before jumping at
products.
4. FLAT BUTTOCKS: Nothing
can be done about that but you can look your best by wearing clothes that draws
more attention to your chest, legs and face and less attention on your
buttocks.
5. FOR AN "UGLY" FACE:
No woman is ugly. It's amazing how millions of women see themselves as less
than an ogre. Simply clear the blemishes, pimples and eczema through regular
facial wash or facial cleanser and apply ointments, cream or other products
that help clear blemishes. A flawless face is a job half done. It is beautiful
on its own. If your husband loves makeup, learn to apply it. Seek help and
advise from experts. If not, you can still look great without makeup. Read my
post on TO USE OR NOT TO USE MAKEUP.
6. EXCESSIVE WEIGHT: You
will need to drop that weight. It takes discipline to lose weight not crash diet
or drugs! These are very dangerous to your health! Lower your calorie intake.
In a simple lay man's language, avoid excessive consumption of chicken, turkey, doughnut, puff puffs and all the fries. Eat less fatty fish, vegetables and
drink lots of water. Exercise a lot. You don't have to go to the gym and if
you want to, it's great. Walking, jugging, dancing, skipping, walking up and
down your stair case are very good form of exercise! Learn to burn the fat. Exercise a lot and avoid being lazy.
7. WEAR CLOTHES THAT SUIT YOUR
FIGURE: Pear shaped women have very heavy bottoms but average or
small breasts. Wear padded bra and clothes that fit your body. Apple shaped
women are very heavy at the top but flat behind. You don't need padded bra at
all. You are already padded! Wear clothes that emphasize your strengths and
less on your weaknesses. For hourglass shapes, fitted gowns, fitting tops and
skirts will speak volume on you. For the straight shape, nice shirts, fitting
blouses with 'flayard' at the waist will look fabulous on you. This is just a
skeletal advice. You can research more or go to google for more information.
8. LOVE YOURSELF: Enjoy your life.
Accept yourself, love yourself and learn to look good. Beauty lies more on
having a positive approach to life. You will feel better and develop a
healthier self esteem.
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