It amazes me how some people are never balanced even when their lives become so complicated! What will people say is the reason thousands of newly married couples don't enjoy their marriages.
"My mother-in-law will think I have a problem if I don't get pregnant immediately" or "I need to show people I'm fertile" so they rush things, get pregnant immediately and miss a very important period of bonding, sexual exploration, free dating, deep, intimate, romantic marital courtship, freedom of intimate communication and simply enjoying each other's company.
There is nothing bad in wanting to start a family right away if that is what you and your spouse wants and you've built a solid foundation for a lasting, intimate bliss before you get married.
If not, enjoy the first two years of marriage enjoying each other's company, fulfilling sexual fantasies, dating more and more, building deep intimate connection, exploring each other's body and world, being purely romantic, learning seduction, giving your spouse all your time and world, praying together, serious planning and communicating deeply and intimately before the baby arrives and starts sharing the time meant for daddy.
If not, enjoy the first two years of marriage enjoying each other's company, fulfilling sexual fantasies, dating more and more, building deep intimate connection, exploring each other's body and world, being purely romantic, learning seduction, giving your spouse all your time and world, praying together, serious planning and communicating deeply and intimately before the baby arrives and starts sharing the time meant for daddy.
It's not compulsory you've gotta have a baby after 10 months. Marriage is not just about making babies or being a dad. Marriage is about loving, sharing, growing together and enjoying each other's company. You can have a lifetime of honey moon and bliss. Give yourself a break and plan a glorious future together.
God bless.
God bless you mah, ur words is quite educative
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