What is that one thing your spouse can do that will make you never to forgive them? Murder, rape, incest, adultery, lesbianism, fraud, occultism or what?
Marriage is not a joke. It is big business. I read true life stories of couples who divorce over minor offences and I gasp, what if he/she sleeps with your best friend, what will you do?
Shit sometimes happen in marriage! Nobody in his right senses plans to hurt his spouse but sometimes good intentions go bad and couples are left, bewildered, dazed, enraged and revengeful.
Humans are humans. No one is beyond making mistakes or going the wrong direction. If you wanna enjoy your marriage and last long in it, you will need to learn to forgive your spouse no matter what or else, do not plan to get married at all.
Forgiveness is not easy. It's so sweet to preach but very hard to practice. You will need to draw strength from the higher power to release your spouse in love.
Not all who married for donkey years had a smooth sail. If they had to tell you their success story, you will discover they've had to forgive their spouse over and over again.
You can't truly love until you make up your mind to forgive no matter what, only then, will your marriage become heaven on earth.
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