HELP HIM OUT

I recently attended a couple's programme where all the men acknowledged that they were faced with sexual temptations everyday.

Lots of women hate to hear this. They either do not want to believe their husbands face temptations or they assume it's their husbands chasing the girls down the street.

You will do well to stock your library with books that help you understand a man's anatomy.

Men are VISUAL beings. He doesn't need to chase a girl to feel tempted. Sexual temptations stare at him in the face all over the places. From nude billboards to scantily clad women on the street to lusty colleagues at the office to seductive 'counsellees' at the church office to demonic sisters-in-law to some of your own friends winking at him in the dark, he is ALWAYS tempted! Men are moved by what they see. They are not like you who is moved by words or touch. Merely looking at a busty woman can send him to the orbit! Some men get turned on at a woman's makeup or the sound of a woman's sonorous voice. Many see all manner of breast size and buttock size per day, even if they don't want to look, the women keep throwing them at their faces.

So how do you help your husband? Simple. Pray for him daily. Always package yourself well. Do your hair, wear different bra shapes, colours and sizes. Be sexually available whenever he needs you and avoid unnecessary assumptions and accusations. 

Make the home a paradise for him. Let him always remember you and rush home whenever he is tempted. Welcome him into your bosom and never push him out with your negative attitude. Learn to be his queen, lover, wife and best friend. 

May the Lord help you.